Hello, I would like to offer some tips on a challenge I am currently facing as a new mom.
My toddler is approaching her second birthday, and her tantrums seem to be escalating daily. I wanted to share some tips that have been effective for me so far. The key is to remain calm, assist your child in managing her emotions, and defuse the situation. I usually validate her feelings by acknowledging her frustration, such as, “I understand you’re upset because you can’t play with this. I know it’s disappointing to hear no, and I’m sorry you’re feeling upset and that it seems unfair.” After that, I will set boundaries by explaining, “I see that you want to touch things, but it’s important to listen when Mommy and Daddy say no to keep you safe, as this is not a toy.” I always offer a comforting hug and stay with her until the tantrum passes. Once she is calm I suggest alternatives like going outside to play or having a snack.
I can sense that strong emotions can be difficult for my young child, but she appears to handle these tantrums quite well. Almost every time, she hugs me and smiles afterward. It’s important to me that she always understands that I am here for her.
As a new mom, it saddens me to see her experience these difficult moments, but I take comfort in knowing that I am doing my best to support her with love and care.
❤️AMB
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